If you have the SeeMeCNC rostock effector on, there is a 40mm hole in the middle. The pictures show how the parts fit together; the adapter plate fits in the 40mm hole of the effector plate carriage and then the Tri hotend heat sink slides into that. The star shaped plate on top is only necessary if the fit isn't tight, in which case the plate clamps around the Tri hotend's groove and holds it down to the mounting plate. The 3 or 6 screw holes around the heat sink will fit either M4 (4mm) or #6 screws (imperial) to hold everything together.
I have an older V1 rostock and I made a top mount for my Steves Extruder so I'm running my own custom filament system of cake containers and tubs. I just put them on top of the printer, which probably isn't the best way to do it but it works for now.
The fan screws into the mount, then you can slide it over the heat sink. If you screw the fan to the
open side of the mount, you should put it on the heatsink first and then tighten the fan to it so it grips it firmly.
CWilson, I don't want to promote only one board, but there are limited options for multi-extruders right now. Here are several options;
1) The RAMBO board limits you to two extruders and two hotends. It's easy to get started with this though.
2) The Smoothieboard is just like the RAMBO but with different firmware, and you can add an extra stepper driver if you're good at soldering.
3) The RUMBA board supports three hotends and extruders, but I've heard of a few people who had problems with the boards a year or two ago.
4) The Azteeg boards can support
up to 5 hotends and extruders. This is the way to go if you want a crazy upgrade capable machine. Unfortunately it doesn't use the newer, faster chips that the smoothieboards use.
I don't want to recommend one and only one since everyone has their own needs. There may be new boards coming out soon (or now) that support more than two hotends, but I'm not an expert on the electronics so much and I don't want to recommend something that ends up disappointing people.