Thanks for the kind words, and I am glad you can get up and running!
Cpunches
Just tracked back though your order, it's a bit of an odd situation.
You will see now on the website that we sell the "Normal version" and the "Bowden version" - The bowden version is drilled and tapped at the top where the filament enters in order to accept a male threaded push-fit coupler. No printed parts involved.
However in the twilight period where you placed your order we were selling the bowden upgrade as a separate "product" on the website - when people ordered the hotend plus the bowden upgrade we would drill + tap the hotend and send them out the bowden tube and couplers. So you have a hotend without threads, but on the way is a bowden attachement that is designed to screw into a threaded hole.
Your options are:
Print a coupling part - this one is nice and is known to work: http://www.thingiverse.com/thing:60539
Drill and tap the top of the hotend - you need to drill out the top of the hotend with a 8.5mm diameter drill bit to a depth of around 7mm and tap to bottom with a 1/8th BSPP tap. You sound like someone who is comfortable with cutting threads!
Opt for a refund/replacement - really this whole separately purchasable part thing was a silly idea from the get go on our part, just get in contact via email and we can make things right.
All others with shipping date enquiries
I'm afraid I don't do any of the shipping etc of parts, pretty much purely engineering boff here! And it's not really the right place for me to be going over individual order details in a public forum. However! if you just ping an email to David (At e3d-online.com) who manages all the shipping he will be able to give you a proper update on things.
We are absolutely looking to be able to give more detail shipping info as soon as we can. In about 2-3 weeks we expect to be shipping with no more than a 48hrs turnaround on everything and totally get rid of this whole preorders nonsense.
Have the water-cooled triple-nozzled bowden fed handmade prototype on my desk. Hope to have beta units for sale in the next 4-6 weeks - exciting times.

Cheers,
Sanjay